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Skills-Based Therapy

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) in Colorado.

A skills-based therapy for emotions that feel too big to hold. We use DBT in individual and group sessions at The Redpoint Center, alongside the rest of your treatment plan.

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What dialectical behavior therapy is.

Dialectical behavior therapy is an evidence-based approach to treating addiction and the mental health conditions that so often sit alongside it. Its starting point is emotion. Some people feel things at a volume that makes ordinary coping useless, and the usual advice to calm down or think it through never reaches them. DBT was built for exactly that.

It grew out of cognitive behavioral therapy. Cleveland Clinic describes DBT as based on CBT but specially adapted for people who experience emotions very intensely, developed in the 1970s by the psychologist Marsha Linehan, first for people living with borderline personality disorder and chronic suicidality. The name carries the method. Dialectical means combining opposite ideas, and the two DBT holds together are accepting your life as it actually is and working to change it. Neither one alone does the job.

At The Redpoint Center we use DBT as one of several evidence-based therapies in a plan built around you, never as a program of its own. It is also unusually adaptable. The same four skills get taught to someone white-knuckling early sobriety and to someone whose relationships keep detonating, and the work looks different in each case.

  • Skills you practice, not just insight
  • Taught in individual and group sessions
  • Acceptance and change held together
  • Used across our outpatient levels of care

What we use DBT for.

DBT began as a treatment for borderline personality disorder and proved useful well beyond it. These are the areas we put it to work, on its own and alongside other therapies.

Acceptance and Change

The four skills DBT teaches.

Two of them are for accepting a moment you cannot change yet. Two are for changing what you can. DBT teaches all four, because most people arrive needing both halves.

Acceptance

Mindfulness

Living in the present moment, so you can see the connection between a thought and what you do next. Breathing and grounding techniques buy you the seconds it takes to decide rather than react.

Acceptance

Distress Tolerance

Stress and crisis do not stop arriving because you are in recovery. These are the skills for getting through a hard hour without making it worse: distraction, self-soothing, riding it out.

Change

Emotion Regulation

Naming sadness, anger, or anxiety accurately, then having a plan for it. DBT never asks you to dismiss a difficult emotion. It asks you to acknowledge it and give it somewhere to go.

Change

Interpersonal Effectiveness

Asking for what you need, saying no, and keeping your self-respect while you do it. Building the relationships worth keeping, and challenging the ones that are not.

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In Practice

What the work changes.

There is no single way to run DBT. We integrate it into your treatment and your daily life rather than teaching it as a self-contained course: in individual sessions, in group work, and usually in some of both. Underneath the skills, five things are being asked of the work.

Acceptance and change. Seeing your circumstances for what they are, naming the stress, anxiety, or depression in them honestly, and only then making a plan. You cannot change a situation you are still arguing with.

Behavioral change. Identifying the self-destructive habits and replacing them, one at a time, with something that does the same job without the cost.

Cognitive change. Thought patterns damage a person as thoroughly as behavior does. The work is learning to catch an unhealthy belief and decide whether it is actually true.

Collaborative skills. Group exercises and social practice, because communication is a skill and skills need repetition.

A supportive mindset. Recognizing strengths in other people and in yourself, which is harder and more useful than it sounds.

This matters most when substance use and a mental health condition arrive together. The National Institute of Mental Health describes integrated care as combining mental health and substance use treatment so patients can receive more convenient, coordinated care in one place, and that is how we treat dual diagnosis: one plan, not two. Research on DBT adapted for substance use has found reduced substance use in randomized trials among people with borderline personality disorder. We deliver DBT inside our PHP, IOP, and outpatient programs.

Where DBT helps most, and where it may not.

A therapy that works for many people does not work for every person in every moment. Here is how we think about the fit.

Your emotions arrive faster than your judgment

If the feeling is at full volume before you have decided anything, DBT is aimed squarely at that gap.

You have talked it through and it did not hold

Insight is not the same as a skill. DBT gives you something to do at 2am, not only something to understand.

Questions about DBT.

What is dialectical behavior therapy?

Dialectical behavior therapy, or DBT, is a skills-based talk therapy for people whose emotions run at an intensity ordinary coping cannot handle. Cleveland Clinic describes it as based on cognitive behavioral therapy but specially adapted for people who experience emotions very intensely. It was developed in the 1970s by the psychologist Marsha Linehan and teaches four sets of skills you practice in session and between sessions.

What are the four DBT skills?

Mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. The first two are acceptance skills, for getting through a moment you cannot change yet. The second two are change skills, for adjusting what you feel and for asking clearly for what you need. DBT teaches all four because most people arrive needing both halves.

What does DBT treat?

DBT treats anxiety, depression and other mood conditions, borderline personality disorder, substance use disorder, trauma and PTSD, and self-harm and suicidal thinking. It was built for borderline personality disorder and chronic suicidality, then proved useful well beyond that. Cleveland Clinic lists substance use disorder, PTSD, eating disorders, depression and anxiety disorders among its uses.

How is DBT different from CBT?

CBT works on the thoughts and behaviors driving substance use. DBT works on the intensity of the emotion underneath them. DBT grew out of CBT and adds mindfulness, distress tolerance, and an explicit emphasis on accepting your situation while changing it. Most people at Redpoint receive a blend rather than one or the other, and we also draw on ACT, EMDR, and experiential therapies. Which approach leads is decided with your therapist.

Is DBT done one-on-one or in a group?

Both, and most people get a mix. Individual sessions work through your own thoughts and responses with a therapist. Group sessions are where the skills get practiced with peers learning the same ones, which is the only way interpersonal skills can really be rehearsed. In its full clinical form DBT is delivered via four treatment modes: individual therapy, group skills training, telephone consultation, and therapy for the therapist. At Redpoint, DBT is delivered in individual and group sessions inside your program, and every client also has regular access to our clinical and medical staff as part of our medical model.

How long does DBT take?

It depends on what you are working on and which program you are in. As a general clinical figure, Cleveland Clinic notes that DBT usually takes at least six months to a year, though that describes a full standalone course of DBT rather than a fixed Redpoint schedule. Here, DBT is one therapy inside your program, so the length follows your level of care and gets revisited as things change. The skills are taught the same way in our virtual IOP as they are in person.
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The skills are the method. The care around them is the point.

DBT works because it sits inside a plan built for your situation, taught by clinicians trained in it across our Colorado offices. Tell us what is going on and we will help you find the right place to start.